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im 18 and shes around 15, you'd think id be the experienced one, but ive barly had a g/f and shes had a b/f or two, so we're both kind of stagering in the dark

ok i got a quick question right to the point, i've like this girl, shes a lil younger then me and pretty inexperienced with romance as am I but like if you get her flowers she wouldnt understand the gesture, (thats just an example ive never sent her flowers) ive told her how i feel and it seems like i have a shot, so my question is how do i keep hinting and doing cute sweet things, but dont go overboard that it drives her away, and how should i keep from doing to little, any advice helps and thx for looking into this !

your young and starting a new chapter in life one of which has to do with boys and dating, when your young and im not specifing 13 i mean 12 or even 20 emotions can disguise themselves as love tricking us to thinking that. im not saying your not in love or that its not possable, but maybe think about the idea that your getting a bit carried away and maybe you should slow down a bit take this summer to clear your head then see how you feel when he comes back, hope i helped feel free to drop me a pm

hey thanks for clicking, i have scars all up and down my arms starting just below my wrists going to my shoulders. summer is just a few short months away and i dont know what im gonna do about wearing short sleeve shirts. i bought some anti-scar gel but it says itll take up to 6 months to work and obviosly i dont have that much time (plus i bought the cheapest brand which rang up to 20.00 and i cant keep putting that kinda money up espeacily since the tube is pretty small) does anybody have any ideas ? i apreaciate all the help you can give thanks for reading.

hey, there no real way to get over it, its not like a step by step basis, i love a scene in the movie swingers it helps me when im hurting and i think it might help show you a diferent angle on the situation... Mike How did you get over it? I mean how long 'til it stopped hurting? ROB Sometimes is still hurts. You know how it is, man. I mean, each day you think about it less and less. And then one day you wake up and you don't think of it at all, and you almost miss that feeling. It's kinda weird. You miss the pain because it was part of your life for so long. And the, boom, something reminds you of her, and you just smile that bittersweet smile. -We see that Mike has been GNAWING AWAY at Rob's pepperoni and semolina as he listens intently.- MIKE You miss the pain? ROB ... for the same reason you miss her. You lived with it so long.

im afraid of torture... knowing theres no help or mercy just pain and terror. and im very self conscience about people that i like or care about not liking or caring back, those are definitly ny biggest fears.

I wrote in a week or two ago about my best friend well latly ive been very much atracted to her, ive got the crush the whole deal (looks like billy crystal was right!) so the advice im seeking is not of what to do about this. i have a terrable habbit, its really hard to admit but i know i need some help with it. sometimes when were talking or even just sitting around my eyes sometimes dart to get a glimpse of her "chest" area etc ,i dont even realise it until i make eye contact again i honestly dont mean to do it but im so terrafied that she notices or will notice, has anyone had/have this problem ? i really am not a pervert or anything of that sort i try to stay respectful and apropriate. if you could please write me any advice or anything that may help i'd highly apreaciate it

ok so heres the story, my best friend is a girl who was dating one of my close friends. they were in love and everything was peachy until he started ignoring her and telling our group of friends they broke up well she found this out from a friend, he has pretty much been ignoring her and treating her badly (such as blocking her from the AIM service not inviting her to stuff he used to etc) he hasnt officially even broken up with her its assumed but not "official" if you will, now heres the next issue the reason hes ending it with my best bud is for another girl, now this girl is the one i have a major crush on, he knew this and is dating her behind our backs, we found out from his new g/f's friend who let it slip. now he told my best bud earlier tonight that he was thinking of her alot and wished he could have been hanging out with her. this is not the first time he has said this kinda stuff out of the blue, he feeds her enouph stuff just to keep her on her toes. its is tearing her apart, i honestly dont know how much more of this i can take, im on the front lines here trying to keep her from drinking and not letting her blame her self for this (she has already gotten drunk once so far and she told me how ashamed she is of it, but feels its her only option) and i have no idea what to do about my situation any comments advice is welcome thx

hey, i fell in love with this girl 2 years ago this ferbruary , but as the months went on i realised how impossable a relationship with her could be, the school year ended and over the sumer i decided to get homeschooled because over the coarse of the sumer i didnt get over her at all and instead of going through it all i went for the homeschool.well im a senior now and im completely miserable i hate eveythig about myself i hate how i need this site so bad, i cut myself for punishment or just to feel better im depressed i cant sleep, I eat to keep my heart beating and lungs breathing, my doctor gave me zoloft but i'm not taking it, my mom thinks i am, i bumped into an old friend from school they said when i left alot of rumors went around that i killed myself by putting a pistol in my mouth, i think that is sooo cool i wanted/want to kill myself but i know my mom cares about me and i am a little scared not to die but that ill die and there will be an after life, i know if there is i will NOT make it to heaven, i dont know what i believe. im not in love with the girl anymore i know that but something just gets to me, im losing it a little bit ago i was starting to cross over to creepy stalker (im sure alot of you will lauph at this but she lives down the street from me) i found myself walking over there when i couldnt sleep i would stand there sometimes get there early as pathetic and disgusting as it is i could tell you what posters she has hanging up. ive never watched her change i never have nor will I ive never seen her not one glimpse (i havnt seen her since the last day of sophmoore year)im actually releived by that i dont think i could handle it. im in therapy now my second visit is tomorow i have no idea what think or do about that i want help but i feel a strange comfort being isolated with my only true friend, my thoughts, im more writing this to tal to something (in this case someone) if you post on this topic thx a bunch

hey there, well about a month ago i posted about how i was cutting myself and gowing through a really rouph time. things are getting a little better thanks to this site i was able to get my courage up and tell someone about my problems the doctor recomended me to a social manager or something like that i met with him thursday he is a really great guy and i told him about my probs i think he is someone i could easily talk to im still relativly depressed and cut, well anyway last night i went to a party thing the first real social activity in about a year and a half so i was really nervous and excited , well there i met the most gorgous girl if not ever in a really long time, she is so sweet and always has a smile but like anything else theres a catch she is my best firends ex, i do not consider myself that attractive and im really shy. so last night i was able to hang out with her alot but only in groups like two people here four there but a few times i made her lauph i think in the way of shyness i did really good i was able to over come it most of the night. i havnt stoped thinking about her yet and im the kinda guy that when i have a girl on my mind no other girl matters it doesnt matter if there a super model they intrest me as much as a guy would (which is no intrest ) she and my friend only went out for like two to 4 weeks or so and HE ended it, im not sure if im ready for a relationship it would be my first plus i have all this therapist crap going on. i feel like it would be easier if i had a girfriend to hold when i was scared someone who would help me through it. im very unexpierenced in the dating field so i dont know if she was ever flirting or if i even was. so any tips adice ill take anything, thank you so much for reading all this !!

hey, you should talk to your brother see if he would have any problems with you guys moving to the next level. one very importnant thing to keep in mind is his age, if it doesnt bother either of you great BUT the age group he is known to experimnet etc he is just getting out of highschool probly moving out of his parents house and so on, he may not believe in one nite stands but i highly doubt he is looking for something serios just fun ,i feel one of the most important thing sis to see how he is with your daughter, take it slow see if your brother is fine with it and be careful you dont get hurt hope everything works out

ok my mom told me that i have a dr apointment in 2 days but i've been going through rouph times and have been cutting myself well its a check up and im sure they'll want me to remove my shirt my chest and arms are sliced i told my mom ive been depressed and she asked if ive thought about hurting myself i couldnt tell her the truth so im sure the dr will tell her , im really scared has anyone gone through this kind of situation , or has any advice ?

what ever you do stay apart from him, you know you can do better think of all the things that you enjoy in your relationship now imagine that but with someone who returns the "i love you" and takes you seriosly but you have to be strong hope ive helped

thank you everyone for replying , im probly going to talk to my mom soon i have no idea how im gonna tell her though or if i should leave some stuff out ,i dont think i can do it , i cant even plan out what im going to say to her in my head , how am i supposed to say that i get flashes of killing people and myself ,musicguy we have been loosly keeping in touch im really sorry to hear about your fiance , im sure she'll come around mar its so cool to see you reply to my topic i see your posts all over enotalone its awesome to see you read and replyed to me , ill do my best to talk to my mom ,ive never been so scared before , i tried talking to my bestfriend (so called bestfriend) he is like the last person i'd ever talk to friend my beep , i posted about him once how i was fed up with the lack of anything torwards me , i'm gettign some information on a child pchiciatrist i dont really know what she does but my friend went to her when his mom was worried he was crazy (very long rediculous story) hopefully he'll bring the info to me today , he doesnt know why i want it dont want to ell him either , should i call and find out what this lady can do she'll probly charge me but maybe i could get her to help me out , or should i just straght out tell my mom , mar i know you think i should but i dont know if i can ,anyway if anyone who posted is reading this then you are checking up on my post so thank you so much ,

thx for clicking i have two questions , i have been going thrugh a lot latly , my g/f cheated on me , i have been cutting myself worse then usual i cant get enouph, im pretty much obsessed , i have dreams , flashes , and desires to kill people , for a while i stoped feeling the killing desire but it came back and i dont enjoy anything that i used to , the best parts of my day are when my parents go to bed and i can be bymyself and no one talks to me but these are the times i cut myself , i can hardly eat or sleep i have like one meal a day and i usually force my self that , i feel like i have no one to turn to absolutly no one ! my question is does anyone think its a bad idea to tell my mom she is probly the best choice but she still callls me her baby i would hate to tell her everything, i dont like my dad very much he flips out over the stupidest stuff , but at least he doesnt hit me , my sis or my mom , so any ideas on what to do ? and my second question is does anyone know any songs that might resemble my prob or might help me out ? music usually makes me feel better if i can relate thx for reading this far and if you post