http://www.enotalone.com/forum/ Relationship advice and help forum en Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:22:17 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.enotalone.com/forum/ http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314613&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:19:04 GMT I started going to gay pubs/clubs back in July and have been many times since but, even though I like guys and would like to think am reasonably good... I started going to gay pubs/clubs back in July and have been many times since but, even though I like guys and would like to think am reasonably good looking so have had interest in me, there's a few things about the gay lifestyle I really don't like:

1) Guys who have sex with someone different on every night out. And I've seen quite a few who do this.
2) A high amount of gay guys who regularly use drugs. My gay friend said that the vast majority do as they don't have real family responsibilities etc.
3) The femininity of lots of the guys which doesn't appeal. I realise it's who they are but it's just a bit much sometimes.
4) Guys in "open" relationships or who have one night stands while supposedly in a relationship. Yes it happens in the straight world but it's a lot more prelavent here.
5) Many guys in their 40's-70's who are on their own, their looks have faded and there's a very little chance of scoring in a gay club with so many youngsters.

I'm just thinking do I really want this? I know that some gay guys don't like the "scene" but it's the whole thing really. I fancy guys but I just wish the gay lifestyle was a lot more like the straight world than it is. I'm just a bit down and disillusioned with it already. ]]> Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Daniel05 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314613 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314612&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:04:41 GMT I was dating a girl I for a month. We saw each for an average of once a week. So today she calls me to tell me that she met someone else and that... I was dating a girl I for a month. We saw each for an average of once a week. So today she calls me to tell me that she met someone else and that she is going to get serious with other person. The moment she said that I felt stabbed in the back. I did not see it coming. Well actually I got a gut feeling that something was up latetly but I just thought it was normal. Now I just feel like crap. I was so happy to finally meet someone that I liked and she liked me. The rejection part is killing me. I have to move on but I can't stop thinking about it. I need to study for an exam and this is distracting me that I can't think! Dating sucks! ]]> Dating Ineedtotalk http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314612 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314610&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:57:21 GMT Hi, Me and my boyfriend broke up and he came back. Some of the big issues where his interaction with other females which get me really jealous. I... Hi,
Me and my boyfriend broke up and he came back. Some of the big issues where his interaction with other females which get me really jealous. I found out the she thinks i giv her a look and she doesnt like me either.

He knows this, now he is in a situation where he wants to keep his best friend and he wants to keep me too.
He told me to trust him.

I do, but i dont trust the girl. Can anyone help me in this situation. I dont want to make him choose, this is wrong. I want to be a bigger person and become stronger. What do i do? ]]> Trust and Relationships new5 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314610 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314608&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:45:51 GMT So, this was the closest I could find to religious and I have a bible question: Can anyone tell me the chapter and verse number for anything in... So, this was the closest I could find to religious and I have a bible question:

Can anyone tell me the chapter and verse number for anything in the bible that says that god wont smite you if you skip church once to spend thanksgiving with your family?

My sister's born again, and never skips church. I'd like her to spend some time with us at some point in time.

Thanks in advance! ]]> Health: Body, Mind and Spirit shortnr http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314608 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314606&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:38:15 GMT I normally don't post on these forums although I read them for regular advice but I'm so upset I just feel the need to vent to someone/something right now.

So I just saw my EX bf and I tried to explain to his why I broke up with him and why he wasn't giving me a fair chance and he kept saying how he has work to do and that's his excuse and I'm too demanding.. and I told him all I wantd was to know he cares and fo him to act considerate and he was chosing not to do that.

And then he said.. fine, you're right, I'm making a decision to put my work ahead of you.. way way ahead of you so what do you want from me. So I just walked away and told him to never call me. And all of this after he made a big deal about how I'm unfair and only thing about myself. Ugh, I wish I could tomato his face :splat: ]]> Healing After Break Up or Divorce sweet_kisses http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314606 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314605&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:35:30 GMT You know, how there is a regular check (which my work doesnt do) or direct deposit, then there is pay card. They say its used like a debit card.... You know, how there is a regular check (which my work doesnt do) or direct deposit, then there is pay card. They say its used like a debit card. Anyone know how it works? ]]> Career, Money and Education scared and alone http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314605 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314604&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:35:19 GMT I'm a mid twenties woman who has never been in a serious relationship. I have had boyfriends but they seem to lose interest pretty quickly and I always seem to get the kind of men who blow hot and cold so I never know where I am with them. It seems like whenever I show any interest they're off. I really don't understand it, I've been told I'm really attractive but I just can't seem to keep a man and it's starting to do my head in.

It's happened so much that I'm worried I'm getting resentful of men and I must be giving off such vibes. Anyone know that feeling? ]]> Dating girlie219 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314604 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314603&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:32:14 GMT http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/researchers-labour-of-love-leads-to-breakthrough-in-treating-ms/article1372414/ http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/...rticle1372414/ ]]> News Talk Victoria66 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314603 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314602&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:21:34 GMT so bluntly, im horrible at sharing emotions, i simply cannot allow myself to, due to childhood issues. thing is, i like this girl and want to put... so bluntly, im horrible at sharing emotions, i simply cannot allow myself to, due to childhood issues.

thing is, i like this girl and want to put myself out there for her, and want to tell her how im feeling and see how shes feeling, but i dont know how to do it or say it. any help? ]]> Personal Growth rateyes http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314602 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314601&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:18:29 GMT I went on a date last night i think it went pretty good....When should i ask her out again? or wen should i text her?....because after the date we... I went on a date last night i think it went pretty good....When should i ask her out again? or wen should i text her?....because after the date we were texting.. ]]> Dating rina17 http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=314601