Allie Ochs

Allie Ochs is a relationship expert, coach, speaker and author of: Are You Fit to Love? A radically different approach to successful relationships. Fit to love is based on 3 principles: mutual respect, moral responsibility and authenticity, which are at the heart of all exceptional relationships. This relationship wake-up call is not for the faint-hearted. It is for the brave, because it challenges us to become better people for each other. Allie revolutionizes relationships from the ground up and helps people improve their relationships immediately.

Books and Articles
Do Sex and Love Mix? In a recent Today Show, Donny Deutsch surveyed women on affairs of the heart. There was something important to learn about women and sex: Sex doesn't happen just like that, Foreplay starts way before you hit the bedroom, Emotional cheating is no different
Perfectionism - The Dangerous Trap Just when I have something figured out, along comes another how-to-article telling me how to be or do something better or even change my entire life. No matter where I turn, I am constantly reminded that I am not good enough in more ways than one.
Valentine's Day Valentine is about love, romance and twosomes. Yet, it is next to impossible to have an intimate Valentine's Day when your relationship is subject to resentment and conflict. It is like going for dinner with an upset stomach.
The Power of Being a Woman The American Poet Ralph Waldo Emerson once said: What lies behind us and what lies before us, are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. Little did he know that his quote would sum up the past, present and future of women.
Loving Without Losing Yourself! You are in love and it feels wonderful. This love is different and you are prepared to do anything to make it last. To prevent this ship from sinking you work hard to steer this relationship into a safe harbor. In the process you lose yourself and your
Are You Fit To Love? Are You Fit To Love? is the most important question we'll ever ask ourselves. Let's face it, our relationships are extremely important. In fact they are the essence of our lives. Yet, for many relationships are the cause of pain and struggle often
Your Beloved Soldier Is Coming Home - Now What? Laura anxiously anticipates the return of her husband Dan. What will it be like and what should she do? After all, he is not returning from a successful business trip or golf weekend. He is coming back from war. Should she arrange a romantic
	Are You Fit to Love: A Radically Different Approach to Successful Relationships If love is not a game, why are there so many players? - ALLIE OCHS. THE FIRST DIVORCE in my family was my parents’, followed by the divorce of my grandmother, that of my aunt, and later that of my uncle. It is almost as if my parents’ divorce