Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.

I am Kathryn Lord and I am a CyberRomance Coach. I get people ready for love, help them find a Sweetheart using the Internet, then learn what they need to know for a relationship that lasts.

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Instant Holiday Party: It's Not Too Late, I Promise! Here's the latest super-simple idea that I have had, so easy that you could do it yourself, right away ... Whoops! You need a little history. If you are a regular reader, you know that I have a new book coming out, 'Looking for Action?
Have a Date by New Year's! In case you haven't noticed, the winter holidays are coming up fast. For many singles, the holiday season is a sad time. Without a Sweetheart, singles can feel like they are outside in the cold, peering longingly through the window at the happy families
What are Five Great Money Questions to Ask Your Date? How to broach a discussion about money with a date often stops people dead in their tracks. But you don't have to pull out your calculator and insist on inspecting your partner's bank and brokerage statements to learn about basic money attitudes. You can
Top Ten Personality Traits for Guaranteed CyberRomance Misery Passivity. Just put your profile on a dating site and then do nothing. The older you are (over 35, especially for women), the gender you are (Men under 40, women over 40), the more obstacles you have that effect your marketability too tall, too short
Oh Fiddle-dee-dee, I'll think about it tomorrow! Does your approach to mate finding sound suspiciously like Scarlette O'Hara? Though Miss Scarlette's famous phrase was I'll think about it tomorrow that was most certainly not her strategy for finding a husband. Miss Scarlette was quite deliberate when
Post Your Photo: The Top Five Reasons The most important part of your profile package by far is your picture. So why would a person NOT post a photo? The main reason I hear is “privacy” - people worry that others who know them will recognize the photo. Yes, that's a risk.
Between Your Ears Are you interesting? Can you hold up your end of a conversation? What if you don’t have much to say after “Isn’t this a nice day”? Maybe that’s why so many women allow a relationship to become sexual so fast - they can’
How Can You Tell If They Are Lying? Did you know that Online Dating is the top moneymaker on the Web? Much of the problem of Internet lying is media over hype. What kind of interest would there be in a story about all the honest people who are on the Net? But of course some people do lie
A Saint for Us – St. Catherine Years ago, I spent a month in the countryside of England. One of my most magical memories was a night in Abbotsbury, a lovely village in Dorset (Thomas Hardy country), right on the coast. After my first dinner in a pub, we walked down a country lane
Are You Like a Big Shiny Black HumVee? Are you like a big shiny black HumVee? Are you so impressive and powerful and well protected - or maybe just plain scared - that you keep everyone away? Do others just dream of driving you but never even come close? What would it take to drive a more mode
50 Ways to BLEEP Your Lover and the Logic Litmus Test - Pass or Fail Last month, we talked about ambivalence and having mixed feelings about the prospect of getting involved in an intimate relationship. I suggested that you think yourself about every reason you can come up with NOT to try to find a partner, write each one
50 Ways to BLEEP Your Lover As much as we all feel that we want a Sweetheart, it is darned scary to actually put yourself out there. So often when I tell people what I do, I get responses that sound like, Oh, that is so interesting, I'd love to hear more about it.
Reading Between the Lines : Me, Abby and Ann I have always loved reading Ann Landers and Dear Abby. Actually, it made all the sense in the world that they were twins, because as far as I was concerned, their columns were indistinguishable. Ann died a couple of months ago, and eerily, her columns
Profile Reading 101 If you've done a little profile writing, you have a head start on profile reading. At least you know how difficult it can be to construct one, particularly one that is good. Getting online and reading profiles are good ways to prepare to write your own
What Are You Weighting For? Is extra weight a factor in your love life? Is your pattern to diet rigorously when you are getting ready to make yourself available to date? And then when you are safely in a relationship, does your weight creep up? Or do you stay fat and single

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