The French Kiss

by adolescent-adulthood.com

Okay, so far I have gone through all the basic aspects of kissing, otherwise known as "lip" kissing. You may even have dabbled in using your tongue while kissing. Lip kissing is only the tip of the iceberg! If you do not widen your repertoire, your kissing life will be very dull indeed.

The French "Soul" Kiss

French kissing involves the tongue. What you do with it, and what she does with yours, is a matter of preference. At the most cautious level, the tongue does in fact enter, only to dart quickly out thus ending the kiss.

The function was performed, and technically, the kiss can be defined as falling under the classification of "French Kiss."

Now, on the other end of the spectrum, you have the type of tongue which, to borrow a cliché from Star Trek, "goes boldly where no tongue has ever gone before".

The French kiss is the essence of kissing: capturing her mouth with desperate urgency, unifying your souls and thoughts with the mouth. By the way, contrary to popular belief, STDs cannot be transmitted via French kissing.

The Pain Kiss

Pain kissing, as the name so obviously suggests, is painful. It is with this seemingly paradoxical pleasure in kissing that we shall deal with now.

First of all, it is necessary to explain that, although an act can be painful, it can still be pleasurable. Now, there are some people who delight in receiving extreme pain. They are called masochists. There are others who enjoy delivering extreme pain. They are called sadists.

The term "sadist" does not come from the word "sad". "Sadist" is derived from the name of Marquee De Sade, a rich French gentlemen who lived a long time ago apparently with a penchant for things "exotic", if you get my meaning.

The existence of these kinds of people has led to the birth of a whole new industry selling stuff like whips and leather outfits. A further explanation of this kind of sexual experience, however tempting for me to dwell on, is beyond the scope of this document.

My point is this: Some people have strong desires in certain fetishes. Normal people have much weaker albeit similar desires. Hence, the introduction of "pain" kissing. The "pain kiss" is simply a tinybite, a love nip.

Now, let me clear up some misconceptions about pain kissing, otherwise known as "necking".

You are not a vampire.

You do not approach her like some Count Dracula and sink your fangs into her delicate neck.

You start kissing her the same way you would ordinarily kiss her but instead of closing your lips, you leave them slightly open and then take a gentle nip into either the nape of the neck, the cheek or even perhaps the lips. A word of caution here. Firstly, don't bite too hard and secondly, necking invariable leaves tell-tale bruises on her neck.

Adding Variety To Your Kisses

Now, there might be some of you who may wonder why French kissing and pain kissing are necessary. If all you did were lip kiss, then kissing would be a dull affair. There must be some other means to express yourself more fully.

The "lip-kiss," as I have mentioned before, is the piece de resistance, the main course in the "banquet of love" as the poet, Ovid, called it. But imagine a meal in which there were seven courses of filet mignon or seven courses of lobster.

You'd get sick and tired of a tender filet after the third course, wouldn't you? And after the second lobster, you would not be able to look a lobster in the eye. So you see why it is that if the lip kissing were indulged in exclusively, you would reach a point where it would lose all of its rapturous savor.

Another way is to use the hold back technique. This is a kiss where you don't actually kiss until about 1 and 1/2 minutes have passed. First when you start to kiss you make him/her lust after you badly...but never kiss him/her pull back just slightly enough that they can't kiss you but are still practically touching... Once you have done this process several times (Till you think it's enough) kiss them passionately.. My suggestion is the French kiss.

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