The True Magic : In Lovemaking Magic

Last month I wrote of our connection to "All Our Relations" and that our higher consciousness is connected to the Creator, making us co-creators. This month I'd like to continue in this line of thought by taking it a bit further so that we can learn to tap into our primordial selves. If we can tap into the higher consciousness of group mind, then we can certainly tap into the primordial mind or the ancient first beginnings of group consciousness.

Why would we want to do that? Because if we learn to tune into this part of ourselves, we can tune into one another as well as the Creator- to the very beginning of creation. If we are feeling interconnected and realize that we all come from the same source we have a much better chance at finally uniting in Universal Peace.

It is no longer us and them and eternal conflicts. It becomes Us. By tuning into primordial mind we will become "knowers" or psychic. - This is what makes a psychic, a psychic. Psychics don't have any special powers that some lack. They have just learned or are more open to this connection.

As our brains evolved and critical thinking took the place of intuition/instinct (group mind consciousness) most humans disconnected from using intuition. This also reflects why human kind learned to separate themselves from one another as we divided up and became more competitive for survival.

There is a lot of speculation in the esoteric line of thought as to what made us split from our God/Goddess selves. I've heard of theories ranging from survival competition, to bad alien influences, to greed, ego and power that somehow overtook and pushed our intuition to the recesses.

Think about the Bible story of Adam and Eve. Basically in the story they disobeyed universal law and were kicked out of the Garden of Eden. Something made us disconnect from our "God" and we lost paradise. Was the universal law, Universal Love that we disconnected from?

Once we become fully aware of our connection we can allow this universal love into our intimate love lives as well.

Ok, so we have the ability to reconnect buried deep in the recesses of our minds and souls. In kindergarten we must first learn our ABC's before we can read. In spiritual kindergarten we need the spiritual ABC's to make that connection to the group mind. We must learn to keep an open mind and heart and allow that critical thinking part of our brains to quiet, so that we can be led to our higher selves and our creator.

Those of you that have been reading my columns know that I stress the importance of balance in the main areas of our lives. That is what this site and my book is all about. If we work at improving and fine tuning the spiritual, mental, physical, emotional and environmental areas of our lives equally, we will be happy!

Well, the joke is on us 'cause it isn't as easy as it sounds and it takes many, many lifetimes to reach total oneness with the creator or god/goddess but in the meantime we can keep working at it and try to have some fun at the same time. Yes, fun! Now I'm getting to the good part!! Try to think of one practice that we humans are so obsessed with? Hum?

If you really want to feel bliss in your life, learn to integrate balance into all aspects of your life. As you do that you can incorporate these same balances into your sexual life. This fall and winter I will give you an introduction to the Five Keys to Sexual Bliss. We will use the five-pointed star of balance as our map.

The Five Keys to Lovemaking Magic and Sexual Bliss:

1. Creating an Environment that is a haven.
2. Creating a Physical Body that is healthy and receptive.
3. Creating an uncluttered Mind.
4. Creating Emotional balance.
5. Creating a Spiritual connection to the Creator