The reason why I entitled this chapter, The Glory of the Woman, is because before you can move forward in pursuing the right kind of man for your life, you need to understand why you were even placed on this earth.

The first thing you need to appreciate is the wonderment of the woman's mind being more analytical than that of a man. Most men can only focus on one thing at a time, while the woman's mind practically works overtime. This is why women tend to gossip more than men, and why they seem to love to just talk and talk. You could say that their minds have been supernaturally unlocked, for they are able to dissect and examine every situation in life. It just so happens that it takes this type of diverse thinking to be a good mother here on this earth; it's not only the man who needs support, but it's the children as well who need guidance and assistance.

A woman's spiritual mind, which is the mind of the human spirit, has more contact with this natural world than man. (The clarification of this mystery is by and by construed throughout the course of this writing.) This is what makes the woman's mind so perceptive. What some would refer to as "women's intuition," is simply this vast area of perception. Consider this: If a person thinks every thought imaginable, it shouldn't seem too surprising if at most times, they hit the nail right on the head of what they feel is or might be: such as being sensitive to the subliminal vibes of other people. It's like a multiple-choice test. All the answers are given; it's just up to that person to choose the right answer. The same holds true with the woman's mind. This explains why men need women, and exemplifies the foolishness of men not listening, whenever the woman may speak and advise him regarding specific areas of his life. It's no wonder that in scripture, the word "wisdom" is often referred to as a "her" or as "a woman."

Because of this difference of the woman's mind, she can easily get paranoid. This is because the woman has so many thoughts racing through her mind. Not only are you talking about the woman analyzing the issue itself, but you are also dealing with her examining "the point in question," in every thinkable way that the whole matter could possibly be searched out or examined, whether it be in the realm of reason or...

Finding Your One True Love

It's either fate or fake; it's either complete destiny or complete disaster. Just bumping into someone and having their books fall to where you lock eyes with one another, while shuffling around for the books, is not always fate. That is why you will find the terms, "accident" and "coincidence" in the dictionary. In finding love, one must be cautious of not getting themselves involved with deceiving circumstances. Deceiving circumstances happen when it "appears" to be love on the outside, but actually it's the same muck that you previously stepped in time after time. Either the man or the woman was putting on a front. That is the only explanation for certain occurrences veering over to complete catastrophe. There is a "perfect destiny" for everyone; it's just up to that person to find it. Keep in mind though that if people were robots, a predestined course of events would always work out for their own good. But since everyone possesses a will and freedom of choice, there is always the potential of one ruining what was once perfect.

Unfortunately, this is the route that many women undertake in their lives: False fate, she decides to date, she now has hate, time for a clean slate. This is how it should be: True fate, you KNOW that you two should date, you're not irate, YOU just found your mate!

If you are a believer of fate, you should know that setbacks or disappointments are either a sign that you are on the wrong track of hope, or that it is not quite your time of harvest. This includes the man you like refusing to say "Hi" to you, or refusing to initiate a conversation. As frustrating as it may seem, this also involves the man taking a strong interest in your best friend. As much of a blow this may be to your pride, self-esteem, and self-confidence, be assured that it is better to be with the right person later on, than it is to have the person that you want now, and be miserable for the rest of your life.

If it's meant to be, it will happen. If it's not meant to be, whatever is presently happening at the moment, which may be disturbing to your hope and soul, is a sure sign that what you want is not how it should be. Wisdom: Fate doesn't involve the forcing of your will, but the allowance of the flow of everyday events.

Where am I going with all of this? Well, since...

Tags: Dating For Women, Love For Women, Finding Love and Soulmate (For Women)

About the Author

Born on February 28, 1974 in Long Island, New York, a graduate from RHEMA Bible Training Center in Tulsa, OK. Kevin has lived most of his life in Virginia Beach, VA where he currently resides. Born and raised in a religious home, like most young adults, Kevin took the turn for the worst when he sought fulfillment in the world rather than the foundational truths in which he was raised. After finding himself at the end of his rope, all he hear rolling over and over in his spirit, in a moment of clarity, is "Restoring the Glory back to the Woman." This would eventually inspire his writing of Not All Men Are Pigs and the return to his faith.