Motherhood
73 Articles & Excerpts
Getting Ready to Fall
A Better Woman by Susan Johnson I was living in Paris then, and my sixtyish, childless painter friend Simone confirmed that this longing first struck the body. 'My own body did not need it,' she said in English, without sentiment or regret. 'You must find out if yours does.'
Real Me
As Good as I Could Be by Susan Cheever What the baby books forgot to mention was the devastating effect of too much love. By the time my daughter was two years old, Me was worn and tattered from being caressed, his once gleaming fur had been fondled to a dull, tufted fabric, his button eyes
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Amy's Answering Machine by Amy Borkowsky A lot of people who are driven to the point of insanity report hearing voices — voices commanding them to stalk, maim, or even kill. Then there are people like you and me.
Neither Here nor There
Mommy Wars by Leslie Morgan Steiner Some of us working moms find ourselves caught in a gray zone between work and home. We are working but have scaled back our ambitions. Our employers, our colleagues, even our husbands, may not comprehend what we've given up in order to have more time
Baby Love
My Girl: Adventures with a Teen in Training by Karen Stabiner In My Girl, Karen Stabiner tells the story of one girl's journey into adolescence, and of her own efforts to find a way to guide her daughter through life's real thickets-not the imaginary, inflamed ones we hear so much about.
Third Trimester
Love Works Like This: Travels Through a Pregnant Year by Lauren Slater, Ph.D. 'Is even the most clenched heart capable of it?' Lauren Slater asks about love, in this original and illuminating book about how we discover what love truly is. Slater charts her own personal journey about having a child.
Moms, Take Heart
From 'queen bees' to 'gamma girls' to the 'odd girl out,' adolescent girls are all over the news. But whether a girl is popular or struggling to fit in, outgoing or reserved, her mother worries about how she is coping with her new, often scary, teenage
Move Over, Mrs. Cleaver!
Baby Laughs: The Naked Truth About the First Year of Mommyhood by Jenny McCarthy In Baby Laughs Jenny McCarthy examines, with riotous candor, the full range of challenges that new mothers face, including: The humiliations of postnatal 'numbing spray,' Tucks medicated pads, and adult diapers; bleeding 'udders,' jelly belly, balding
A Mother's Guide to Health in Body, Mind, and Intimate Relationships
Mother Nurture by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Jan Hanson, M.S., L.Ac., Ricki Pollycove, M.D., M.H.S. Mothers today juggle more tasks, work longer hours, and sleep less than their own mothers did. Yet the self-healing revolution has overlooked the most significant issue in the lives of some twenty million women: how to cope with the relentless, sometimes
There Goes My Baby
It's Her Wedding But I'll Cry If I Want To: A Survival Guide for the Mother of the Bride by Leslie Milk Oh, my God, she's engaged! You shouldn't really be shocked by the news. She may not live at home or even in her hometown, but you've seen the signs. First his name started cropping up in conversations. Then she was starting sentences with 'Tim thinks'
Right before the devastation
72 Hour Hold by Bebe Moore Campbell Right before the devastation, I had a good day. God should have pulled my coattail then and there: “Enjoy this while you can, honey, because Satan beat me in a poker game last night, and he's claiming you and yours sometime soon.”
Mothers and Daughters: The Bond That Wounds, the Bond That Heals
Mother-Daughter Wisdom: Creating a Legacy of Physical and Emotional Health by Christiane Northrup, M.D. The mother-daughter relationship is at the headwaters of every woman's health. Our bodies and our beliefs about them were formed in the soil of our mothers' emotions, beliefs, and behaviors.
Welcome to the Idea Zone
The Family Manager's Everyday Survival Guide by Kathy Peel In the 'Seven Days a Week' section of this book, you'll find ideas for daily organization-from morning till night. In the 'House Works' section, you'll find dozens of ways to make and maintain your home as a place in which people like to live.
It's About Time: New Times, New Talk
Venus in Blue Jeans: Why Mothers and Daughters Need to Talk About Sex by Nathalie Bartle, Ed.D., Susan Abel Lieberman, Ph.D. When my children were old enough to entrust with a house key, they sometimes arrived home from school before I returned from work. At least one day a week, though, I would try to be there when they rushed through the front door, hoping they'd share some
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Mother of My Mother: The Intimate Bond Between Generations by Hope Edelman My grandmother lived in a town called Mount Vernon, and for most of my early childhood I thought that meant George Washington had once been her neighbor. There was a legitimate old-world feel to her street: gabled roofs, imposing oak trees, trellises, gaz
Breast Is Best! Breast-feeding for Success
The New Mom's Manual : Over 800 Tips and Advice from Hundreds of Moms for Baby's First Year by Mary Jeanne Menna Experts agree that breast milk is the best source of nutrition for baby, providing just the right amounts of carbohydrates, proteins, and fats, as well as critical enzymes and antibodies that promote immunities to fight disease in your baby.
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Surviving Ophelia: Mothers Share Their Wisdom in Navigating the Tumultuous Teenage Years by Cheryl Dellasega, Ph.D. There are no pictures of me cuddling Ellen to my heart for the first time in the delivery room, but it doesn't matter. Every detail is clear in my mind: her perfect, round face, the fuzz of soft gold hair crowning the very top of her head, and her dazed d
You're on Your Way
The Working Mother's Guide to Life: Strategies, Secrets, and Solutions by Linda Mason Different Approaches to Working Motherhood. Petronila, my friend in rural western Kenya, sits in the shade under a small tree in a congested and lively marketplace in a small hillside village. It is hot and dry.
Into Adolescent Territory
Ophelia's Mom : Loving and Letting Go of Your Adolescent Daughter by Nina Shandler, Ed.D. I hand her the keys and sit on the passenger side of the car. I think of her in the stroller, on the tricycle, in the bumper cars at the fair, and I see her now, ready to drive my car. She turns the key and I think of her playing with my keys before she
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Liz Lange's Maternity Style: How to Look Fabulous During the Most Fashion-Challenged Time by Liz Lange pregnancy style. To some this idea seems baffling, but to me it's always made perfect sense. Pregnant women are beautiful, and pregnancy is undoubtedly one of the happiest, sexiest, and most exciting times in a woman's life. In my mind, a pregnant woman
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| Advice & Discussions | HELP!! Ex is now friends with my mother!! I started NC about a month ago and think that I've done pretty well....
I have sent my ex 1 message which was short and emotionless to explain why money that I owed her would be late going into her bank account.
I have recieved about 20 text messages from her and about 10 calls that I didn't answer. | Her Controlling Mother... My girlfriend and I got into a fight right before Thanksgiving... she spent the 4 day weekend out of town with her family (we were supposed to go together), and when she came back she wanted nothing to do with me... but as i talked to her i could see her feelings behind her mask and she was upset and hurt, i admit it was my fault we fought. | Is mother always right? After having read a lot of your posts I feel it is time to tell my own story... Or at least part of it.
My boyfriend (31) and I (24) had been together extremely happily for 2 years, living together for 1 year, when totally out of the blue i saw an email his sister had left open on my laptop - I did NOT go snooping, she had left it open accidentally. | girlfriend and mother of my child left after 4.5yrs My girlfriend dumped me after almost 5yrs. We were fighting alot and we both decided that taking a step back and see what happens would be best. Well its been 5 months now and she still doesn't want to date or anything. The problem is we have 4 children 3 are hers from previos mariage and I love those 3 to death just like my own. | Lost my Babys Mother Im not sure where to start and I apoligize if this is long.
My name is Tim, i met Alissa 8 years ago in highschool, We got togather shortly there after and started our relationship, She got pregnant, and we decided what was best was to give the child up for adoption. |
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