Fatherhood
54 Articles & Excerpts
The Designated Daughter
The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood by Jesse Green 'Mommy,' he said. In the summer after his third birthday, Erez started asking for his mother, or at any rate for something he referred to by that name. 'I'm going outside to find Mommy,' he informed us one day, quite jauntily, as if he were announcing
Strange Fruit
Whatever Happened to Daddy's Little Girl? : The Impact of Fatherlessness on Black Women by Jonetta Rose Barras We faced the Gordon Plaza Apartment complex on St. Ferdinand Street. A rust-colored, four-inch band of wood raced around the middle of the mustard-painted buildings, reminding me of the dirty ring my two sisters and I left inside the silver metal tub when
The Moment of Truth: Your Transformation Into a Father-to-Be
Do I Look Like a Daddy to You? A Survival Guide for First-Time Fathers by Quinton Skinner Maybe you and your partner were planning to have a child together, maybe you weren't. Some of us are somewhere in between, ready to have a baby but simply letting nature take its course. Whatever you intended, the test has come back and the results are in
Building a Father-Daughter Relationship
Dads and Daughters : How to Inspire, Understand, and Support Your Daughter When She's Growing Up So Fast by Joe Kelly Perhaps every father should be issued a football mouthguard when his daughter is born, since he's liable to spend the next few decades biting his tongue. When my daughter Nia was thirteen, she announced that she was going to dye her hair orange.
My Son
Raising Cole : Developing Life's Greatest Relationship, Embracing Life's Greatest Tragedy: A Father's Story by Marc Pittman, Mark Wangrin Marc Pittman was raised rough. He was a builder by trade; he got in bar fights; he wrestled bears. But that didn't stop him from becoming the kind of father he had always wanted. People said he was lucky, but Marc Pittman knew the truth: he worked hard
Chapter One
Becoming a Father: The Real Work of a Man's Soul by John L. Hart, Ph.D. In an age when men's roles in the lives of their children are under fire, the book may well become the touchstone to a new wave of hands-on, emotionally present, conscious fathering. John Hart focuses on the synergistic tenets that a father is crucial
Part 1
A Father Is a Gift by Joanne Davis Father. Take a minute, if you will, and meditate on the word. Let it filter through your mind and sink into your consciousness. If the experience unleashes a flood of images, don't be surprised. Going back to the time that Adam raised Cain and Abel
What We're Up Against
Business Dad : How Good Businessmen Can Make Great Fathers (and Vice Versa) by Tom Hirschfeld, Julie Hirschfeld, Ph.D. No training. Dozens of schools offer M.B.A.'s, but there's no Master of Fatherly Administration. The fact is, we can't prepare for having kids the way many of us prepared for our professional careers. And make no mistake: fathering is tricky work
Think fast! Now, think faster!
Business Dad : How Good Businessmen Can Make Great Fathers (and Vice Versa) by Tom Hirschfeld, Julie Hirschfeld, Ph.D. The timing is painful. We're trying not to blow the critical years of our kids' childhoods, while at the same time struggling to build careers in the midst of one of the most challenging business climates ever. Is it any wonder that many business dads
The Challenge
Business Dad : How Good Businessmen Can Make Great Fathers (and Vice Versa) by Tom Hirschfeld, Julie Hirschfeld, Ph.D. As businessmen and as fathers, we face nowadays what is known in business as a high-class problem: an explosion of opportunity without a single extra hour in the day. Think of how life has changed since 1960.
Preparations
The New Dad's Survival Guide : Man-to-Man Advice for First-Time Fathers by Scott Mactavish SO YOU'RE GOING TO BE A DAD. Take it from me, there's nothing like it, bro. Nothing. Sure, you'll have a few bumps in the road, but just wait until you hold your son or see your daughter smile at you for the first time.
How to be a be a better father to all my children? by Ellen Kreidman, Ph.D I am a 44 year old father of 3 beautiful girls (14,12, & 10). I went for a Vasectomy 2 years ago, however my wife now is 8 weeks pregnant (by me, my doctor's theory is that my vasectomy reconnected). I SHOULD be happy, I SHOULD be laughing, I should
To My Fellow Parents
Cursed by a Happy Childhood : Tales of Growing Up, Then and Now by Carl Lennertz This book began as a diary I started to keep for my 11-year old daughter. She was two years away from a birthday with teen in it, so I felt the time was right to put down on paper some thoughts and advice that might be of use to her in the future.
Fatherhood is Both a Challenge and a Gift
I perceived my dad as strict, uncompromising and demanding. I was afraid of him. Though I always knew that I was loved, it felt conditional. Dad's generation believed that well-behaved, unspoken kids were an indication of how good their parenting skills
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| Advice & Discussions | Father Opening up brings great stress? My father was raised to be a hard ass. He does his best to control his emotional status. He recently became on strike since he works at Boeing so hes got a lot of time on his hands.
He came into my room today. I'm 18 years old and currently attend college. | I hate my stepfather more than anything! I'm at my breaking point! I'm not one to use such a harsh word as hate but this is the one situation where it truly applies. I've loathed my stupid stepfather for so long now I just can't take it anymore!
I love my mom and can't understand why she's with someone so horrible. | Fathers and Daughters I'm not sure if this topic/situation has anything to do with the board I'm posting in, but this is the best I could find.
I had a run in with a girl at my school that I've had problems with. We consider ourselves friends for the most part, but sometimes we disagree on things, and she isn't nice about it either. | My father is moving to ohio TO give a short back-story my father abused me in every way (emotionally, physically, sexually-assault) and was a rotten human who walked out valentine's day 2000. He never spares a visit from some biting remark to me and so whenever he would visit I'd go into depression. | Always feeling uncomfortable around my father. I always feel uncomfortable around my father ever since I was young. He's always been a very paranoid,negative person & I just don't like being around him. The only time he ever talks to me is to put me down about something. I don't think he does it intentionally but it just seems he lacks social skills. |
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