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Two Ways of Looking at Life
Learned Optimism : How to Change Your Mind and Your Life (Vintage)
by Martin E. Seligman, Ph.D.
The optimists and the pessimists: I have been studying them for the past twenty-five years. The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events will last a long time, will undermine everything they do.

Aristotle's Critics
Creating the Good Life :Applying Aristotle's Wisdom to Find Meaning and Happiness
by James O'Toole
There is a formidable list of critics who have supplied thoughtful arguments against Aristotle's way of thinking: Hobbes, Rousseau, the Mills (Harriet Taylor and John Stuart), and Bertrand Russell are some of the stars of philosophy

Wake Up, Sister. It's Your Turn
A Weekend to Change Your Life
by Joan Anderson
Recognize That You Are Lost. A full life requires cultivation. The minute we take our hands off the plow, fail to reseed, forget to fertilize, we've lost our crop.

Catching up with the Dream
The Simple Abundance Companion
by Sarah Ban Breathnach
A dream is a promise you make to Spirit and yourself. Sometimes it takes literally years to keep that promise, whether it's a home, a family, a career, or a lifestyle. Dreams cost sweat, frustration, tears, courage, choices, money, perseverance

The Foundations of Aristotle's Thought
Creating the Good Life :Applying Aristotle's Wisdom to Find Meaning and Happiness
by James O'Toole
Aristotle begins his own philosophical inquiries by taking the world as it is and humans as they are: in both cases, imperfect. He asks how these imperfect people can make their social and political institutions better and how they can individually lead

Incapable of Being Indifferent
Exuberance: The Passion for Life
by Kay Redfield Jamison, Ph.D.
It is a curious request to make of God. Shield your joyous ones, asks the Anglican prayer: Shield your joyous ones. God more usually is asked to watch over those who are ill or in despair, as indeed the rest of the prayer makes clear.

Back to the Beginning
Something More: Excavating Your Authentic Self
by Sarah Ban Breathnach
We will be taking many backward glances throughout our journey, so we ought to accept at the outset that no life retraced ever really begins at the beginning, especially a woman's life. For while the past asks only to be remembered, a woman's memory

You Can Be Happier
The Happiness Makeover: How to Teach Yourself to Be Happy and Enjoy Every Day
by Mary Jane Ryan
What would happen to us if we really fell in love with life? How would our lives change if we really thought ... that reality is fabulous ... ? Would we be fools of whom other people take advantage, or would we find that life is exciting, joyful

Your Quest For Happiness
Real Moments: Discover the Secret for True Happiness
by Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D.
This is a book about the real moments that make life matter, and how to have more of them. It is about experiencing fulfillment and meaning in your life now, not when you have more money, or find the right partner, or achieve your perfect weight

Aristotle's Primary Character Reference
Creating the Good Life :Applying Aristotle's Wisdom to Find Meaning and Happiness
by James O'Toole
Aristotle is remembered today as a polymath and organizer of knowledge. A primary influence on medieval philosophy, he introduced a structure of logical thought that laid the groundwork for empirical science in the centuries to come.

What Do I Really Want For My Children?
The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness: Five Steps to Help Kids Create and Sustain Lifelong Joy
by Edward M. Hallowell, M.D.
Think of your children. Bring their faces to your mind. Then ask yourself, 'What do I really want for them in their lives?' Don't assume you know. Before you spend another day as a parent (or as a teacher or a coach or anyone else involved with children)

The Physiology of Marriage: The Musings of an Eclectic Philosopher on the Happiness and Unhappiness of Married Life
by Honoré de Balzac
Marriage is not an institution of nature. The family in the east is entirely different from the family in the west. Man is the servant of nature, and the institutions of society are grafts, not spontaneous growths of nature. Laws are made to suit manners,

The Pleasure of All Five Senses
Seven Sins for a Life Worth Living
by Roger Housden
We can see farther today than any of our forefathers could dream of seeing. We can see farther than the keenest cheetah or lynx. We can look over the horizon, around the world, up into space, down into our intestines digesting dinner.

Benchmarking Reality
If Only: How to Turn Regret Into Opportunity
by Neal Roese, Ph.D.
Counterfactual thoughts provide benchmarks for reality. By offering standards of comparison (this happened instead of that), they place the factual events of our lives into context. An experience feels all the more precious, or all the more poignant

Madness and Method: Predictable Crises of Adult Life
Passages
by Gail Sheehy
Without warning, in the middle of my thirties, i had a breakdown of nerve. It never occurred to me that while winging along in my happiest and most productive stage, all of a sudden simply staying afloat would require a massive exertion of will.

Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness
by John Mather Austin
In this language St. Paul asserts a principle which should commend itself to the mature consideration of every youthful mind. If the young would have their career honorable and prosperous - if they would enjoy the respect and confidence of community

The Equality (And Inequality) of the Species
Creating the Good Life :Applying Aristotle's Wisdom to Find Meaning and Happiness
by James O'Toole
Because Aristotle sees members of the human species as inherently unequal in their ability to engage in abstract reasoning, modern critics have been inclined to throw out his philosophy on the grounds of political incorrectness.

How to Eat: A Cure for Nerves
by Thomas C. Hinkle
A very sad thing about some nervous people is the fact that in their lives there are domestic or other troubles which no physician can overcome. Some of them live in depressing surroundings, but for all these there is hope.

Transforming Dissatisfaction At Work
The Art of Happiness at Work
by The Dalai Lama, Howard C. Cutler, M.D.
It had been a long day for the Dalai Lama. Even by the time he had eaten his meager breakfast of tsampa and tea at 7:30 a.m., he had already been up for four hours, completing his rigorous daily regimen of prayer, study, and meditation.

Success
by Baron Max Aitken Beaverbrook
Near by the Temple of Success based on the three pillars of Health, Industry, and Judgment, stands another temple. Behind the curtains of its doors is concealed the secret of happiness. There are, of course, many forms of that priceless gift.

Advice & Discussions
Happiness
I got to work on Monday and I was standing around talking with my manager before my shift started, I see my boyfriend walking in the mall and we ended up getting to have lunch together before I had to start work. He's usually at work at that time, and I only ever really see him at home, so it absolutely made my day to see him like that, and to get a bit of extra time.
What is Happiness?
Is happiness a constant party? Is happiness a loving family? Is happiness a solid, honest, free, loving self? Is happiness life itself? Is happiness a good lay? Is happiness the absence of something? Is happiness the presence of something?
do i deserve real happiness?
OK, so this story is long and very complicated. Im 37 and have been married to a Japanese woman for 10 years. Initially it was a marriage of convenience, for her visa, so we never really committed in the traditional sense. But we got along and we stayed in UK for 5 years, we then moved to Japan where we have been for another 5 years.
Marriage= happiness?
What do you think about this article? Is it better to be single (with no romantic interests) or married if you had to choose one or the other? link
Can A Person Really Feel That They Don't Deserve Happiness?
Do you think that a person can really have self esteem so low that they can feel like they don't deserve a good partner who is faithful and truly loves them? I understand the comfort factor and feeling strange being in the company of someone who loves you when you're not used to that, but wouldn't that person like the feeling of being loved and really try to make it work, or do you think if someone has been on their own, emotionally, for so long they'll never get used to being loved? Has anyone experienced this from either side? Thank you in advance.

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