Self-Esteem
30 Articles & Excerpts
Self-Help Books Do More Harm Than Good
by eNotAlone.com
Canadian experts have found that so-called self-help books may actually do more harm than good to people who really need help. Researchers say that individuals with low esteem felt much worse after repeating positive statements about themselves.
What Are You Afraid Of . . . And Why?
 Feel the Fear ... and Do It Anyway
by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.
Are you afraid of making decisions ... asking your boss for a raise ... leaving an unfulfilling relationship ... facing the future? Whatever your fear, here is your chance to push through it once and for all.
Confidence
 The Confident Woman: Start Today Living Boldly and Without Fear
by Joyce Meyer
What is confidence? I believe confidence is all about being positive concerning what you can do-and not worrying over what you can't do. A confident person is open to learning, because she knows that her confidence allows her to walk through life
What are you afraid of?
 On Becoming Fearless.... in Love, Work, and Life
by Arianna Huffington
Being assertive? Looking fat? Getting older? Going broke? Are you afraid for your children? Afraid of losing love? Afraid of leading the charge? Whatever your fear, women everywhere confront the same fears every day.
Surrendering Who You Are Not, Part 2
 Living from the Inside Out
by Jean-Marie Hamel, Ph.D.
Most limiting thoughts emerge from false beliefs like rolled dough cropped by cookie cutters. First, these beliefs mold our perceptions, causing us to see the world as we presume it must be, not as it is.
Surrendering Who You Are Not
Living from the Inside Out
by Jean-Marie Hamel, Ph.D.
Master artists know that surrender is the key to creating anything of enduring value. When Italian artist Michelangelo was asked how he sculpted David, he replied he carved away everything that wasn't David.
Saying No: The Basics
 How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty
by Patti Breitman, Connie Hatch
To build up your courage for those really difficult 'no's,' start small. Practice saying no in nonthreatening encounters where there isn't much at stake. Tell your best friend you don't want to go to her choice of restaurant, and suggest another.
Obstacles That Get in Your Way
 Esteemable Acts
by Francine Ward, JD
You'll encounter many obstacles along the road to living your dreams. Some obstacles may be real, some imagined, some may be tangible, and some may be intangible. Some of those obstacles will be created by others, and some will be self-imposed.
Action 1: If You Can Dream It, You Can Have It
Esteemable Acts
by Francine Ward, JD
It's an esteemable act to have the courage to dream. Until I had the courage to dream of a better life, I wasn't able to have one. And as far back as I can remember, I was afraid to dream.
Who Am I To Be Telling You What To Do?
 The Confident Woman: How to Take Charge and Recharge Your Life
by Marjorie Hansen Shaevitz
I can't remember when I didn't want to write this book. After a lifetime of experiencing little confidence, two separate, but related incidents led me to stop thinking about it and sit down to prepare, and eventually write The Confident Woman.
Wake Up, Sister. It's Your Turn
 A Weekend to Change Your Life
by Joan Anderson
Recognize That You Are Lost. A full life requires cultivation. The minute we take our hands off the plow, fail to reseed, forget to fertilize, we've lost our crop.
Introduction
 The Art of Living Consciously
by Nathaniel Branden, Ph.D.
It is true that living consciously obliges us at times to confront painful realities. It is also true that it demands an effort. As a way Of operating in the world, living consciously has its costs, and we will examine them.
Muscle Dysmorphia: 'Puniness' in the Mind
 The Adonis Complex
by Harrison G. Pope, Jr., M.D., Katherine A. Phillips, M.D., Roberto Olivardia, Ph.D.
The body image distortions of men with 'muscle dysmorphia' are strikingly analogous to those of women (and some men) with anorexia nervosa. In fact, some people have colloquially referred to muscle dysmorphia as 'bigorexia nervosa' or 'reverse anorexia.'
Secrets of the Men at the Olympic Gym
The Adonis Complex
by Harrison G. Pope, Jr., M.D., Katherine A. Phillips, M.D., Roberto Olivardia, Ph.D.
Many of these men, we believe, are caught in a double bind they can neither understand nor escape. On the one hand, they're increasingly surrounded with media images of masculine perfection - not just here in the gym, but in advertisements, on television
Facing Fear and Finding Freedom
 Approval Addiction: Overcoming Your Need to Please Everyone
by Joyce Meyer
So many people today have an unhealthy need for affirmation and are unable to feel good about themselves without it. These 'approval addicts' spend their time in a constant struggle with low self-esteem and emotional turmoil-which leads to major problems
Body Image Blues
 Real Kids Come in All Sizes : Ten Essential Lessons to Build Your Child's Body Esteem
by Kathy Kater
Too many American children, particularly girls, are afraid to gain weight. The compelling wish to be thin or stay thin at all costs provides the seeds for a lifetime of intense, unrelenting, counterproductive conflict between hunger and eating, or between
Chapter 1
 When Misery Is Company: Ending Self-Sabotage and Misery Addiction
by Anne Katherine, M.A., C.M.H.C., C.E.D.T.
Why does happiness always seem to elude certain people? And why, when these same people seem to be on the cusp of achieving happiness, do they sabotage themselves? People who are addicted to misery try to protect themselves against feeling bad
Moving from Fear to Freedom
 Transforming Anxiety, Transcending Shame
by Rex Briggs, M.S.W.
Like a sign of the times, anxiety has become a constant factor in today's society, but it is sometimes difficult to recognize the effects of anxiety on our mental health. To determine if anxiety is getting in your way, take the following Distress Test
Self-Worth and Self-Esteem
 Everyday Enlightenment: The Twelve Gateways to Personal Growth
by Dan Millman
Because many people assume that self-esteem and self-worth mean the same thing, it seems important to note the distinctions between the two. Self-worth (associated with self-respect) refers to your overall sense of value, worth, goodness, and deservedness
Being Accepted for Who You Are - The Key to Real Self-esteem
 Nurture by Nature : Understand Your Child's Personality Type - And Become a Better Parent
by Paul D. Tieger, Barbara Barron-Tieger
Talking about self-esteem in the current political climate is difficult. These days, the term has come to be associated with social programs or attitudes that try to make excuses for poor or even outrageous behavior and then blame that behavior on
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