Sex and Romance For Women

Foreword
The Vagina Monologues: The V-Day Edition
by Eve Ensler
I come from the down there generation. That is, those were the words-spoken rarely and in a hushed voice-that the women in my family used to refer to all female genitalia, internal or external. It wasn't that they were ignorant of terms like vagina, labia

The Kama Loutra: How I Came to Teach the Sexuality Seminars
How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that Will Blow His Mind
by Lou Paget
Gathered in a boardroom in an elegant midtown private club, ten to fifteen women, ranging in age from early twenties to mid-fifties, stare at the table center. The table itself is laid with silver flatware, linen napkins, and fresh flowers.

Your Own Sexual Fingerprint
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: Discover Your Full Desire, Pleasure, and Vitality
by Rachel Carlton Abrams, M.D., Master Mantak Chia
Who are you sexually? Our sexual selves are as colorful and varied as each of our unique personalities or fingerprints. Our sexual preferences are influenced by our past experiences, our relationships, the culture in which we live, and the biochemical

Every Woman's Fantasy
Bedroom Games: Stripteases, Seductions, and Other Surprises to Keep Your Partner Coming Back for More
by Mary Taylor
I believe that deep down, every woman thinks of what it would be like to perform an erotic striptease. Her fantasy involves slowly and seductively removing her clothes for an audience of at least one enthusiastic, highly appreciative man.

Wild Women Do...
Supersex
by Tracey Cox
Have you heard the news? There's a new breed of women out there and they're a bunch of shameless hussies! Selfish, self-absorbed why, they're she-devils! Determined to destroy our sense of community/the American way/the family unit by putting off marriage

Chapter 1
The Best You'll Ever Have : What Every Woman Should Know About Getting and Giving Knock-Your-Socks-Off Sex
by Shannon Mullen, Valerie Frankel
I'm not quite so typical anymore. Most American women don't sell sex toys for a living. But more are joining me every day because lots of women buy them-or should. I've learned that much since the creation of Safina, the company I founded to provide sex

Introduction
The Cult of the Born-Again Virgin: The New Sexual Revolution
by Wendy Keller
Millions of single Americans are living secret sex lives and nobody's talking about it - until now. These cutting-edge singles are (sshhh!) celibate! That's right. But why would any reasonable person voluntarily give up sex?

The Illusion of Sexual Individuality
Perfectly Normal: Living and Loving with Low Libido
by Sandra Pertot, Ph.D
Sexually, we like to think that we have it together, that we are more sophisticated and sexually aware now than at any other time in history. Yet, as we have seen, the current stereotype of normal, desirable sex is still quite narrow and rigid.

The Changing View of Normal Female Sexuality
Perfectly Normal: Living and Loving with Low Libido
by Sandra Pertot, Ph.D
In TODAY'S WORLD, young women expect to want sex with passion and enjoy it with abandon. A good sex life is regarded as a right that is taken for granted. With increasing recognition of women's rights in both the personal and public domains, women are no

Vaginas
Totally Private: Answers to the Questions Lovers Long to Ask
by Joan Elizabeth Lloyd
Dear Joan, I've been having a problem I hope you can help me with. I'm a twenty-four-year-old woman and I'm kind of new at sex. My problem is that I don't seem to get soaking wet the way I read in books. Is there some problem with me? What should I do?

The Search for Sensual Vitality
Kathy Smith's Flex Appeal: Look Great and Feel Sexy at Any Age
by Kathy Smith
TWO YEARS AGO, having just turned fifty, I set out to write a book about sex. Easier said than done! After exploring the swarm of midlife changes our bodies go through for my book Moving Through Menopause, I'd become aware that questions of libido and sex

When His Penis Is Too Big: Wanting To Please Him Doesn't Have To Be Painful
by John D. Moore, MS, CADC
Sex should be something that you enjoy, not fear. Remember to not do anything that you don't want to, take things slowly and look for other means of pleasure. And lastly, of course, always use protection. By following these simple precepts, you might just

How Can I Get Back His Kisses?
by Ellen Kreidman, Ph.D
I’ve been married for 9 years and I have two children, ages 2 and 5. Here’s my problem. I work part time and never feel that there are enough hours in the day to get everything done. Making love to my husband is the last thing that’s on

Pleasuring Him, Part 2
by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Worship your lover's penis. Okay I know this sounds silly, but there is nothing that will make your man feel more special. Look, learn and examine his penis as if it were under a microscope. Get to know every little inch, nook and cranny. Cherish it, love

Pleasuring Him
by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Men are very visual beings. Their initial excitement often comes from what they see. So provide your lover with lots of visual stimulation. When wanting to elicit desire, wear sexy outfits or walk around naked in front of him. Take naked or provocative

You Want To Have Sex With THIS Body?

So. You have a neat relationship. You want to take it a step further, but you've got stretch marks from your babies. Or you've got moles in funny places. Or birthmarks nobody has seen since your grew out of diapers. Or something else you consider a defect

Women Should Never Blame Or Shame A Man For Ejaculating Rapidly
Male Sexual Endurance: A Man's Book About Ejaculatory Control
by Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
In good sex, there are no demands made and no judgments passed. Men tend to be intercourse-oriented, and women often need to be persistent and patient in teaching their partners that there is more to making love than just doing it.

What To Do With A Minute Man: A Woman's Guide to Understanding Premature Ejaculation
Male Sexual Endurance: A Man's Book About Ejaculatory Control
by Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
It is most men's fantasy-wish that they would be able to penetrate a woman who bucks like a wild unbroken bronco, maintain perfect control during an hour of hard steady thrusting, and then time their ejaculation to coincide, contraction for contraction

Doing The Kegel Exercises
Pathways to Pleasure : A Woman's Guide to Orgasm
by Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
In getting started with the Kegel exercise of the PC muscles, the first task for many women is to locate them. The best advice for finding the muscles is to do so while urinating. Sitting on the toilet with legs slightly spread, try to interrupt the flow

The Kegel Exercises
Pathways to Pleasure : A Woman's Guide to Orgasm
by Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
A Little History: As these are the muscles that contract rhythmically during orgasm in both males and females, it is not surprising, therefore, that sex therapists have emphasized the importance of these pelvic floor muscles that surround the vaginal