Marriage
133 Articles & Excerpts
Are You Getting What You Want?
The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work by Terrence Real Are you happy with the relationship you're in today? Or are you frustrated, knowing that no matter how hard you try, the open-heartedness that first drew you and your partner together seems awfully hard to win back?
How We Break The Connection
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: Finding Love Beyond Words by Patricia Love, Ed.D., Steven Stosny, Ph.D. Men are right. The 'relationship talk' does not help. Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. You'll never get a closer relationship with your man by talking to him like you talk to one of your girlfriends.
Passion Quests
Sex Lives of Wives: Reigniting the Passion by Holly H. Hollenbeck Just what are married women in their thirties, forties, and fifties doing to keep the passion alive in their marriages? In her search to answer that question for herself, Holly Hollenbeck put together a "Passion Seekers" support group.
Myth of the Marriage
The Total Marriage Makeover: A Proven Plan to Revolutionize Your Marriage by David Clarke, Ph.D. Let me take you back in time to the early days of your relationship. Can you picture those days? You meet, and you both know there's a spark of mutual interest and desire. You're clicking as you've never clicked with anyone before.
Rethinking the Purpose of Marriag
Mindful Loving: 10 Practices for Creating Deeper Connections by Henry Grayson, Ph.D. Marriage has served many different purposes throughout recorded history, ranging from procreation, companionship, convenience, status, need, and sometimes love. Yet, at the present time in America, I think we can all agree that our system of marriage
The Journey That Brings You Home
The Marriage Sabbatical by Cheryl Jarvis I'm sitting at the dining-room table making phone calls, struggling to get a job in a city where creative opportunities are limited. The right side of my neck aches from my prolonged, hunched-over position.
From Predicting Divorce to Preventing It
Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage by John M. Gottman, Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman, Ph.D., Joan DeClaire It's been more than a decade since John and his colleagues at the University of Washington (UW) first announced their discovery: Through the power of careful observation and mathematical analysis, the team had learned to predict with more than 90 percent
Walking Down the Aisle without Losing Your Mind
I Do but I Don't by Kamy Wicoff I will never forget the first time I saw myself in a proper wedding dress. I walked into the fitting room wearing jeans, boots, a T-shirt, and, believe it or not, green underwear. I emerged before a wall of brightly lit mirrors to see . . . a bride.
Love Is Not Enough
I Love You More: How Everyday Problems Can Strengthen Your Marriage by Les Parrott III, Ph.D., Dr. Leslie Parrott Like most couples deeply in love, Les and I longed to find ways to make our love endure even before we were married. Part of the impetus for our vision came from reading A Severe Mercy, the real-life love story about Sheldon and Davy Vanauken, two lovers
Why We Get Married
Grown-Up Marriage by Judith Viorst Most of the women of my generation probably married too young to have grown acquainted with the dread of loneliness. Most of us were taught, however, before we left our teens the dread of unmarriedness.
The Not-So-Great Escape
The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis People who are unhappy in their marriages often speak of feeling trapped. They yearn to be free from the tension, loneliness, constant arguments, or deafening silence but worry that divorce may not be the right decision.
Hey! You're in a Relationship!
It's (Mostly) His Fault by Robert Alter, Ph.D Let's face it, we men don't know squat about relationships. We don't really do relationships. We do work, we do sports, we do cars, we do wars, and we do sex, but we don't really do relationships. Women do relationships. They like relationships.
A Little Different Approach
Super Bowl Marriage by Terry Owens Television and movies often portray love as a powerful feeling. People fall in love, but the feeling eventually dulls. People fall out of love. It's part of a natural progression. The time comes to move on. Maybe fall in love again.
First Commitment: Centering
Marriage from the Heart: Eight Commitments of a Spiritually Fulfilling Life Together by Lois Kellerman, Nelly Bly In this enlightening guide, pastoral counselor and Ethical Culture Leader Lois Kellerman and coauthor Nelly Bly help couples discover eight core commitments that are the foundation for a deeply fulfilling marriage-Honoring, Caring, Centering, Choosing
Welcome to the Club
How to Survive Your Husband's Midlife Crisis: Strategies and Stories from the Midlife Wives Club by Pat Gaudette, Gay Courter A midlife crisis can devour a relationship. The Midlife Wives Club is a supportive online sisterhood for midlife mates-a place to vent some steam, share advice, or just get a reminder that they're not alone. In this guide, readers find wisdom from both
Defuse Power Struggles
Seven Secrets of a Happy Marriage : Wisdom from the Annals of "Can This Marriage Be Saved?" by Margery D. Rosen, Editors of Ladies Home Journal Sean and Cecilia's issues are similar to the ones couples face when one spouse works long hours or travels often, only to come home and feel like a stranger,' said the counselor. 'It's also easy for the spouse at home to establish a routine where she's no
The Marriage Wars: Five Myths of the Postmarriage Culture
The Case for Marriage: Why Married People Are Happier, Healthier, and Better Off Financially by Linda J. Waite, Ph.D., Maggie Gallagher A groundbreaking look at the most basic and universal of all human institutions, this authoritative and provocative book reveals the benefits-emotional, physical, economic, and sexual-that marriage brings to individuals and society as a whole.
Getting Started on a Starter Marriage
The Starter Marriage and the Future of Matrimony by Pamela Paul The Starter Marriage and the Future of Matrimony is a pioneering study of first marriages lasting five years or less and ending without children, and of the changing face of matrimony in America.
Nagging
Why Men Don't Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes : The Ultimate Guide to the Opposite Sex by Barbara Pease, Allan Pease Nag: verb to annoy, badger, bend someone's ear, berate, breathe down someone's neck, worry, harrass, hassle, henpeck, pester, plague, provoke, scold, torment; noun a person, especially a woman, who nags. Nagging is a term used almost exclusively by men
There Goes My Baby
It's Her Wedding But I'll Cry If I Want To: A Survival Guide for the Mother of the Bride by Leslie Milk Oh, my God, she's engaged! You shouldn't really be shocked by the news. She may not live at home or even in her hometown, but you've seen the signs. First his name started cropping up in conversations. Then she was starting sentences with 'Tim thinks'
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| Advice & Discussions | Need advice.. Marriage/another man? I am a 37 y/o female. Been married for over nine years. I have been with my husband since I am 13 and never been with anyone else other than him.
Through our nine year marriage, I have been through a lot of mental abuse. To the point where I would feel worthless, ugly, fat and can't do anything right. | Parents, Religion in Marriage First off, let me just say that both me and my fiance are non-religious (basically atheist). We would have nothing against a religious wedding or whatever. I personally though don't want to be forced into anything religious (like a baptism.)
My family is Baptist and religiously conservative. | sharing life- question on a specific situation all right I need help with another specific situation.
Let me preface by saying I want to relate this story and get comments on if I am too emotionally aloof and am in the wrong or my wife is expecting more than what would be typical here.
I have posted a few times on here. | generosity For people in marriages or long-term relationship where finances are shared:
What do you do about things like charity, gifts, or doing nice things for people? Should you get your spouse's agreement for this kind of spending? Or is it personal?
And what if you have very different views? |
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