Finding Love and Soulmate

Compatibility
by James Lucoff
I often hear about couples breaking up because of incompatibility. The concept of compatibility has been around for many years, and many have accepted this as a fundamental truth of relationships. According to this axiom, people, like chemicals, can be

Are You Relationship Ready?
by Toni Coleman, LCSW
So, you want to fall in love? You are certainly old enough and moving well along your chosen career path. Many of your friends are either married or in committed relationships. You have grown weary of the singles scene and the solitary life.

50 Ways to BLEEP Your Lover and the Logic Litmus Test - Pass or Fail
by Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.
Last month, we talked about ambivalence and having mixed feelings about the prospect of getting involved in an intimate relationship. I suggested that you think yourself about every reason you can come up with NOT to try to find a partner, write each one

Love, American Idol Style
by Lisa Daily
Does the American Idol judge we like the most hold some clue as to the kind of people we're most attracted to? I asked around, and the favorite judge VS. potential mate answers were surprisingly accurate. Below is the Love Life Idol-ometer

50 Ways to BLEEP Your Lover
by Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.
As much as we all feel that we want a Sweetheart, it is darned scary to actually put yourself out there. So often when I tell people what I do, I get responses that sound like, Oh, that is so interesting, I'd love to hear more about it.

Reading Between the Lines : Me, Abby and Ann
by Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.
I have always loved reading Ann Landers and Dear Abby. Actually, it made all the sense in the world that they were twins, because as far as I was concerned, their columns were indistinguishable. Ann died a couple of months ago, and eerily, her columns

Getting Ready For Love, Part 1
by Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.
Thinking about dating again, maybe after being out of circulation for a number of years, can feel like anticipating your high school class reunion - Time to go on a diet, buy some new outfits, and get a new hair style, maybe a dye job or even a hair

Introduction
Love is No Guarantee! What you Need to Know before You fall in Love
by Peter Hector
One in every three first marriages in the U.S will end within ten years, and one in five will end within five years, according to a November 2001 report issued by Centers for Disease control and Prevention. The report First Marriage Dissolution, Divorce

Tips On Choosing The Right Person From The Dating Scene
by Alina Ruigrok
Okay, so you date people hoping that one of these days you will come across the right person, the one you will make the greatest romantic connection with. But does it feel like you are going nowhere and believe that you just have no luck with meeting the

The Best Place To Meet the Guy (or Girl!) of Your Dreams
by Lisa Daily
Tired of spending every weekend gripping a bottle of light beer, meeting the same people in different clothes, and listening to the same jokes? Ever wonder where all the good ones are hiding? Most of us think we'll never meet somebody great in a bar

Tracking down your Soul Mate
by Alina Ruigrok
Finding your soul mate will the best accomplishment you will ever make, but it does not stop there. Finding the right person is just the beginning. Keeping the right person takes work too, on both your parts. The two of you will have to continue valuing

Love: Never Give Up!
by Debora Myers
A true love story that love does come when we least Expect it. If you think that the circumstances in your life will inhibit any chance of finding the love of your life, you may be in for a surprise. Rae thought that she had no chance at ever finding her

The Perfect Partner
by Paul Mauchline
Some of us go to the extreme in deciding whether someone is right or wrong for us. Some of us are on a quest to find that "perfect" partner, our ultimate lover, our soulmate, our equal, who shares our every interest and belief. This is a complet

Getting To Know You
by Paul Mauchline
Many relationships fail today because we do not ask the right questions in the beginning, and we do not listen to the answers. Get to know yourself and your partner... By Paul Mauchline

Are You The One For Me? Are You Not The One For Me?
by Paul Mauchline
How do you find a partner who is the right person for a committed, loving relationship? How do you know he or she is, indeed, the one for you?

Before You Seek Mr. or Ms. Right
by Paul Mauchline
Are you a single adult seeking a committed relationship? If so, in my opinion, there are some important areas that you need to consciously examine before you search for Mr. or Ms. Right. First, you must carefully consider the question, "Am I ready fo

Relationship Choices; Do We Have The Right Knowledge?
by Paul Mauchline
Do We Have The Right Knowledge? Examination of the knowledge, beliefs, and molds that was instilled into us by others while we were growing up.