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Flirting 101: 10 Tips to Make
by Lisa Daily
You don't have to look like Jennifer Anniston or Brad Pitt to make the guys (or girls) go gaga. All you need is your fabulous smile and a few surefire flirting tips like the ones you'll find below to attract the opposite sex like paparazzi to a movie star

5 Secrets to Attract The Opposite Sex Like Ants To Strawberry Jam
by Lisa Daily
Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game? We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five unbelievably effective secrets to make the opposite sex come running. Here's how you can use them to work for you: BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION

True Love and Chemistry: Exploring Myth and Reality
by Toni Coleman, LCSW
This issue was written to help you to have a clearer understanding of what REAL relationship chemistry is. When you have a good understanding of how you choose potential partners, it should help you to evaluate your choices better and make the right one

Dealing with a Flirtatious Partner
by Alina Ruigrok
Even though it is an overall harmless behavior, flirtation seems to be a problem in most relationships. People find it offensive and disrespectful, as well as causing them to feel jealous. There are ways you can deal with your partner's flirtatious ways

The Seven Deadly Body Language Sins
Would Like to Meet: The Ultimate Dating Makeover
by Tracey Cox
Under pressure, our bodies leak - and I don't just mean perspiration. They leak information about our true feelings. Pretend all you like that you're having a wonderful time at Aunt Mary's 60th birthday party

The Keys to Successful Flirting
by Peta Heskell
what are the keys that together unlock the doorway to being a fantastic flirt? Key 1. State reigns supreme. The most important component of a successful flirtation is being in the right mood for flirting. Good flirts are playful, have a sense of fun

From Euphoric Love to Rising Love
by Paul Mauchline
You are experiencing euphoric love: deep passion, romance, and hot steamy sex. You believe you have found the one for you: you are falling in love. How do you make it last?

Are Past Relationships Getting In Your Way?

This issue was designed to help you raise your awareness of how your past relationship experience can become a template for all present and future relationships without purposeful awareness of, and intervention on, your part. This should help you do you

Tips For Becoming Fluent In The Non-Verbal Language Of Dating
by Toni Coleman, LCSW
We are all too familiar with the term body language. There have been books, workshops and endless discussions spawned by it. But do you really KNOW how to interpret the non-verbal messages that other people broadcast on a continual basis in their

What do you do when she 'flirts on your turf'
by Peta Heskell
How dare she flirt with MY man! She and he are deep in conversation. She is flashing her eyes, twirling her hair, pouting, lip licking and touching him. She's giving out all the signals of a woman on the prowl and she's with YOUR man! What do you do?

You are a sexual being
by Peta Heskell
We have learned that sex is sex and there is a time and a place for it. Nowadays we have a socio-political climate where men are afraid to make a move on a woman for fear of offending her and women are afraid to be sexual in case they are judged on

Sexual Harassment versus Flirting
by Peta Heskell
How do we know if someone is flirting or sexually harassing us? This begs the question 'Who is responsible for your feelings'. If you agree with the old saying 'sticks and stones will hurt your bones but words will do no harm' then sexual harassment can o

Sexual Projection
by Debora Myers
Sexual projection is the sexual energy you emanate to those around you. You may not even be aware of the message you are sending. Are you projecting lack, insecurity and neediness? Or are you projecting a strong, self-assured sexual dynamo?

Making The Connection: Tips For Getting Noticed
by Toni Coleman, LCSW
Chances are that you have had a wide variety of experiences in your quest for meeting singles. These can range from an event that yields several nice interactions and at least one offer to get together for a date, to going home feeling frustrated

Seductress: The Women and the Art
Seductress: Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love
by Betsy Prioleau, Ph.D.
The seductress. She's a scarlet inkblot, a Rorschach of our deepest sexual fears and fantasies. She's the blond bimbette in a string bikini; the stacked vamp in Spandex; the Chanel-suited nymphobitch of Sullivan & Cromwell; the servile artist's muse

Attracting Love
The Love Magic Book: Potions for Passion and Recipes for Romance
by Gillian Kemp
It is natural to love another person. Love is both ecstatic happiness and deep despair, both sweet and bitter. Your mind may advise you not to love a worthless or unfaithful person, but the heart will continue to love because it cannot accept reason.

Flirting 101
Fine Art of Flirting
by Joyce Jillson
Recently, I Ran into a friend or mine, a thirty-two-year-old divorcée who is average looking, moderately successful, and a mother of four kids. She was just coming home from a weekend business seminar, with three great-looking men pestering her for

Chemistry
Cracking the Love Code
by Janet O'Neal
Chemistry is the elusive quality that separates a romantic relationship from a platonic one. It's the special attraction, the magical essence that makes us want to have sex with a particular person, to blend and be one with that person.

Love, American Idol Style
by Lisa Daily
Does the American Idol judge we like the most hold some clue as to the kind of people we're most attracted to? I asked around, and the favorite judge VS. potential mate answers were surprisingly accurate. Below is the Love Life Idol-ometer

Are You Like a Big Shiny Black HumVee?
by Kathryn B. Lord, L.C.S.W.
Are you like a big shiny black HumVee? Are you so impressive and powerful and well protected - or maybe just plain scared - that you keep everyone away? Do others just dream of driving you but never even come close? What would it take to drive a more mode

Attraction and Flirting
Attraction and Flirting For Men
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Advice & Discussions
Attractant Colors/Scents
I have read that most guys are more attracted to women who wear a pinkish-rose colored shirt/blouse. I have also read that males are attracted to the scents of vanilla and cinnamon. Has anyone else heard this, or had experience (+ or - ) with this?
Non-attraction, and non-flirting
I have a quick question and it'd be awesome if I could get some girl's input on this one, plz. What does it mean when you're (a guy) just there being yourself and some girl catches you looking (but not really staring) and she just gives you that look like you're a serial killer or a rapist (stuff I'm 100000% sure I certainly am not even close to being) and then she completely ignores you sometimes, but other times you can feel her stare piercing your skin? I've had this happen to me a couple of times, so I end up just ignoring them as well and minding my own business, cause I doubt it's got anything good to it (I get a bad vibe when stuff like that happens.
how 2 attract a girl 101
ok here the deal:how do u attract a girl?guys...what do u do 2 attract a gril u havent even talked 2 and how do u get a friend(girl) 2 feel an attaction over u?what body languauge is beeing used?what techniques works?thanx alot
Attracted to me?
Ok in my class the seats are arranged so that two desks will be right next to each other (each side touching). One of the pair of desks had a girl sitting in one desk with the other desk right next to it empty. I chose the desk next to the girl since it was in the back.
Why am I so attracted to her?
Not sure if anyone can awnser this but I'm going to give it a shot and ask anyway. I've had a crush on this girl for about a year now and no matter how hard I try I can't tear myself away from liking her. I convince myself that I don't like her but as soon as I see her I like her again.

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